8 In 中文部落格/ 宅女心聲

意料之外

說實在的,我很羨慕那些可以按部就班地規劃人生,而他們的努力也能讓他們能夠實現幾乎每一步。

我的人生恰恰相反。無論我如何規劃,總會脫線。不說什麼10年規劃這類的,就說說一年內的計畫。可以說是從來沒有實踐過。

總會在某個時段發生意料之外的事,有好有壞。所以,我不再規劃。「既來之則安之」,隨遇而安。

今年我的人生就有好幾個轉捩點。唯一的不變?終歸還是單身(笑)。在感情的部分還是滿戲劇化的,但都沒有結果。

現在,又站在一個十字路口。突如其來的消息,點燃了一絲希望,讓我又好像可以開啟我一度認為已經關閉的門。那麼一絲希望。撩起了我的期望,同時讓我有些害怕失望。太專注於那份希望,是否讓我忽略了眼前擁有的機會呢?

可是我太討厭後悔了。機會來了,總覺得要拼一拼!經過上一次的失敗,我成長了不少,也知道我的不足。

這次要好好把握機會!(:

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8 Comments

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    제이드
    2 September, 2016 at 4:10 PM

    加油!

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      Hangukdrama
      12 September, 2016 at 8:55 PM

      謝謝!

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    Cynthia
    6 September, 2016 at 10:03 PM

    How fun! I have been working on learning Chinese and have progressed from radicals to one word characters so far. This blog post is like a new form of puzzle solving and is great practice in recognizing bits and pieces. Even though I probably won’t be able to decipher entire sentences, I am still having fun when I figure out or recognize different characters!

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      Hangukdrama
      12 September, 2016 at 8:57 PM

      that’s awesome! 😀 Keep going and you will be able to understand entire sentences soon!

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    Leilah
    7 September, 2016 at 6:07 AM

    please do a list of your recommended or favorite stationary/pens/paper

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      Hangukdrama
      12 September, 2016 at 8:57 PM

      hahaha ok!

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    Jan
    11 September, 2016 at 7:13 PM

    Hi, this is my first time on your page. Ah, thank God for Google Translate… might not be perfect, but I think I got the gist of it. I used to be bad at planning, and I think I still am. :-\ Although I would say, I got married at the right time, and I surely won’t have a baby until I’m ready. Those are the two things I gave so much thought. But 10 years from now? I don’t know. There are things that do come unexpectedly and sometimes, random opportunities pop-up. It’s just really up to us. 🙂 And yes, life still goes on, even without a Planner. 😉

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      Hangukdrama
      12 September, 2016 at 8:58 PM

      Hi Jan! (: Thanks for leaving a comment! Hopefully great things keep coming your way!

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